Sep 5, 2009

My lifelong endeavor


Hubby and I have been married for almost eight years he is so nice to me and to our children. What I love most about my husband is he tries so hard to make me happy, he is always there to comfort me but sometimes I get frustrated because my husband and I view the world so differently and I don’t know how to see things from his perspective. It is hard!
I want to be a better wife. Over the years I have matured, I have grown, I have identified and realized the issue and even begun to work on it. Before I have been so negative, selfish and just constantly complaining about EVERYTHING. Everyday I try to be a better wife, and everyday I improve with limited minor setbacks. This is not something that I feel I can ever fully accomplish, since I believe it’s an ongoing goal with unlimited opportunity for improvement. After all, being a better wife is a lifelong endeavor.

9 comments:

Chubskulit Rose said...

I agree with you, it is a lifetime endeavor. What matters is that you love each other.

Have a blessed Sunday Mommy Jac!

♥♥ Willa ♥♥ said...

it takes time mommy jack, lalo na we're involved pa in inter-racial relationship, but the good thing is, we have a lifetime to learn, and don't get frustrated too much, just take the lesson one day at a time.and one thing that I personally recommend is not to complain ( i was like you before) bec the more you do, the more you get frustrated.ako,I do things around the house whenever i feel like doing it, kapag iniisip ko na kailangan kong gawin, parang nagiging trabaho ang dating na nakakasawa na,relax and enjoy the day, do more farming (lol!), it's ok (at least for me) even if the dirty dishes is filling up your sink.a very clean house is boring lol!

Enchie said...

We had that same journey Mommy Jac! I'm very happy for you...and this post enlightened me once again.

Rossel said...

it's happening to me sometimes kahit pareho kaming Pinoy ng husband ko. we are totally different persons so have different likes, views and opinions. but chubskulit is right, what matters most is you love each other very much. good day to you mommy jac.

Chris said...

well said!

kamz said...

you are so right mommy jac. marriage is a life-long endeavor. i have my mistakes and weaknesses too.. but for as long as we are working things out together with our hubby, then i think nothing will go wrong. God bless!

Filipina Blogger said...

Mommy Jac - I know and understand how it is. I try my best din to become a better wife. It is a continous journey :)

♥♥ Willa ♥♥ said...

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onlinemommy said...

Indeed! Being a better wife is a lifelong endeavor. I admire you for desiring to be a better wife everyday.

God Bless you.

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