not again




My kids started to ignore me and It really pisses me off !!! I said; Lately I notice something, you aren't listening to me anymore. Like yesterday I told you to pick those things on the floor but you ignored me. While I'm talking I notice that they are too busy watching their favorite show Hanna Montana, for sure they haven't heard the things I've said. What I did was I turned the TV off and ask them to listen for a while because I want to say something, I talked to them in firm but loving voice...
I have a few rules inside our house. I believe as a parent the rules exist to protect the safety of our children for them to understand the meaning of being respectful and obedient . I know my kids and I do expect my children to obey me but sometimes kids break rules and I told them if you break the rules there is a consequence . I have a variety of discipline methods and it works for me, taking away their privileges to do the thing they love like "No Disney channel for today or go to your room " and in front of them I took all their favorite toys and put all that stuff in the garbage can it works!!. I told them if they want those toys again they have to earn them back.. I know that every parent has it's own way to discipline their children, some of us believes that spanking is the way to discipline our kids. I used to spank my daughter but I feel bad about it. I remember one time I spank her with a wooden ladle and after I saw the stripes mark on her arm, I felt like I punished her the wrong way and I hate it. If I can't handle some situation, my husband is always there to back me up and I admire him for that and he believes that spanking is not the way to discipline the kids because they will start hitting back or end up hitting other people.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

i agree... i use to spank my son because his so kulit... pero na guilty nmn ako bigla, pinalo ko sya sa arm kc kumakain kme mag asawa gusto nya sya mag hahawak ng spoon ko tapos tatapon nya yung kanin.... yun kaya ko sya napalo, pero nag sorry nmn ako sa kanya tapos nilambing ko sya... sana yung ibang mga parent jan eh wag nmn bugbogin yung mga bata, wala nmn silang kasalanan, pag sabihan nlng... thats all thank you.. hihihih... keep up the good work ate... galing mo talaga... idol... hihihih... love you and god bless you and your family always.. mwahhh... ;)

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