Quick post!!! I'm about to lost my temper!!
Here it goes!
She's about to go on her way home with her fellow classmates, when suddenly one of them started the intriguing conversation and unfortunately my daughter was busy then talking to her friend and she didn't hear that conversation properly. So what she did was she asked that girl again to repeat what she said earlier. In her surprised that kid laughed at her and said “Because you’re a (hafu) "half/foreigner" that's why you didn't know what I'm talking about!!! They laughed at my kid's face!! She almost felt the tears run down on her face. Kei is such a loving and nice kid, that's why she didn't deserve this kind of insult...
Some children can be very cruel and most likely have been taught their ways by the influences of their parents. Unfortunately these ways can be hurtful to others. It is not my kids fault if their mom is a foreigner and for me that is not a big deal. We're all humans!!!!
After she told me everything I'm about to loss my temper and I want to pull that kid's tail. Oh my! This is some kind of a whole damn racism!
13 comments:
Keep your cool Ms. Jac, letting out your anger will just make it worse. Just tell Kei to just ignore those kind of folks..
Thank you Joops!
so sorry to hear this kind of remark.... but i guess as moms, we need to be an example to our kids... Joops advise is right, keep your cool and remind Kei that she should not let this people affect her... there are many mean people but she should not let them destroy her self-worth over their remarks...
im sure you can console and encourage Kei...
hi mommy Jacris,
nakaka relate ako,im so sad to hear this. i hope that your kid will be OK and i hope that her classmates will not do it again, if they did, abangan natin sa kanto *ha ha ha*
halu jac, i understand your reaction..hehe (sounds family..ingon pa sa hawd sa grammar) but anyway.. tell kei that they were just jealous of her beauty! waheheheh.
good day!
@ Chris, I got over reacted with this incident that's why nabuhos ko d2 sa blog. About Kei naman she's fine now and sa tingin ko no big deal sa kanya yun and hindi nya alam na affected ako ng husto. kasi hindi ko pinakikita na naiinis ako.Thank you Chris, I really do appreciate it ..
Joop is right Jac,cool ka lang,inggit lang sila dahil mas cute si Kei chan sa kanila!
Desho?
@ ate Jen/seiko: Oo nga naku e2 na ako I'm fine na kasi nakita ko na kayang i handle ni Kei yung situation and she's a tough girl...I admire her so much...Senxa na ha na ibuhos ko yung inis ko to the fullest eheheh...
me too sis, I would react that way pag nangyari yan sa mga anak ko. Pambihira talagang mga batang ito, tanggalin ko kaya ang sungay para bumait. Kawawa nman si Kei, nainsulto sa mga walang modo na mga bata
Yes. kids ARE cruel! Especially here sa states they are so mean to each other! I always teach my oldest daughter how to defend herself against bullies. I told her never to let anyone push her around. And I always tell her that if it's already out of hand na she can always tell me and I'll talk to their teachers and the kids' parents if necessary.
Kunsumisyon talaga ibang bata. Mga walang modo!
When I read this on Friday I could easily imagine what you were feeling. I've blogged several times about my fear of Logan being bullied. At the end of the day I hope that because he knows I am his #1 supporter and he'll always have his family, that will give him enough security to stay strong in these types of situations. It seems like your girls definitely have that in you so keep up the good work and they will always be okay!!!!
Merong ganyang bata talaga lalo na dito sa Japan--nakuuu!!minsan nakaka-irita rin talaga.GGrrr!!
grrrrr!!!ahaha i know your feeling that time Jac ..si Ryou kun ko ilang beses naba?pero ignore lang ingit kasi sila diba?diba??!!
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